Adoption FAQs

Do I have control over who the adoptive parents will be?

Yes. By law, the mother can select her baby’s adoptive parents based on her personal criteria.


Will my child understand my decision?

Many adoptive parents honor and deeply respect the birth parents of their adopted children. They make sure those children understand the strength of character required to make an adoption plan. Remember, you have the right to choose your child’s adoptive parents based on what’s important to you—including their sensitivity to and respect for you as the natural parent.


Will my child feel unwanted?

The adopted child is a wanted child. She is wanted by the mother who chooses to carry her to full term rather than abort her. She is wanted by adoptive parents willing to wait weeks, months, or even years to meet her and make her part of their family. According to adoptive mother and author/editor Eliza Carney, “studies show that adoptees are as well adjusted as their non-adopted peers.”


Can I communicate with my child once the adoption is final?

By law, you may opt for an open adoption, in which you can maintain contact and a relationship with your child.


Who will cover the costs of the adoption?

The adoptive parents may cover the costs of your legal assistance during the adoption process.


Who will cover the costs of medical expenses?

The adoptive parents may cover the costs of your medical expenses during the adoption process and for a short time thereafter.