Post Abortion Support for Men

She had an abortion. I was the father. Help starts with us.

People deal with the aftermath of an abortion experience in many different ways. The way they choose to deal with it changes everything.

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Emotional/Psychological Symptoms: 

  • Guilt
  • Unable to “forgive himself”
  • Emotionally numb
  • Shame
  • Grief/Sorrow
  • Unworthiness
  • Self-condemnation
  • Feels degraded/debased
  • Anger/Rage
  • Depression
  • Anxiety/anguish
  • Loneliness
  • Bitterness
  • Confusion
  • Fears punishment
  • Regret/Remorse
  • Hopelessness
  • Helplessness
  • Panic
  • Frustration
  • Feels exploited
  • Self-hatred
  • Despair
  • Feels rejected
  • Horror
  • Fears/dreams about losing a child
  • Flashbacks and/or nightmares
  • Fears another pregnancy or infertility
  • Feels inferior
  • Fears failure

Behavioral Changes: 

  • Secretive
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Crying spells
  • Divides times into “before” and “after” the abortion
  • Avoids baby reminders
  • Reduced motivation
  • Loss of normal sources of pleasure
  • Self-punishing and/or self-degrading behavior
  • Develops eating disorders
  • Alcohol and/or drug abuse
  • Suicidal impulses
  • Promiscuity or frigidity
  • Loss of interest in sex
  • Marital stress
  • Abusive/tolerates abusive relationships
  • Withdraws from others
  • Difficulty with all types of intimacy
  • Changes in relationships
  • Wants replacement/atonement child
  • Damaged father/child relationship
  • Over-protective of living children
  • Fails to bond with subsequent children
  • Cutting
  • Damaged masculine concept
  • Anniversary/Due date reaction

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